Epiphanies

  • What, from previous sessions, has come back around to speak to you?
  • Which of the homework exercises have had an unexpected impact on your outlook?
  • Where is this path leading you?

Permissions

  • You are invited to engage at whatever distance feels right today
  • You are not required to speak, share, or explain anything
  • Noticing is enough — meaning can come later
  • Silence, confusion, and resistance are valid participation
  • Take what is useful and leave the rest
  • The Questions for Discernment and Homework are optional and meant to serve you, not pressure you. Do as much or as little as feels right.

Video Presentation

https://www.ted.com/talks/brene_brown_on_vulnerability

Questions for Discernment

  • How do you personally define ‘vulnerability’? What makes you feel vulnerable?
  • What are some things that make you feel unworthy of love and respect?
  • How does society treat people who make themselves vulnerable? How do you treat people that are open and vulnerable with you?
  • Have you ever had a situation where you were vulnerable with another and instead of shame, that person made you feel loved?

Homework Exercises

  • Recall a recent circumstance when a friend or co-worker was vulnerable with you. Go back to that person and express sincere gratitude that they trusted you enough to be open to you.
  • Practice a brief, low-risk vulnerabilty — e.g., share a minor fear with someone you trust — and reflect on how it felt to choose vulnerability intentionally.

Side Trails

https://www.ted.com/talks/michele_l_sullivan_asking_for_help_is_a_strength_not_a_weakness